This is a very important issue to me. I love my children very much. I want to keep them safe at all times and one way I try to do that is to teach them their boundaries. I don’t encourage building walls. Just for them to know where they start and end as they move into other peoples spaces.
I try to teach them to trust their hearts, their bodies, their instincts and the values my husband and I share. But I know that the best way to protect them is to heal myself and restore the trust that I am safe in this world. That I am at peace in this world.
My interest in this topic goes beyond my own children. It goes past all the children out here in the world today. My interest, my heart, goes out to the Child Within the so many adults that have been hurt, neglected, traumatized, abused that move through life with their wounds still open, still deep.
LilaDance! is my contribution to assisting those seeking to heal those wounds. We all have experienced struggles as a child. I think we all have been traumatized at some point in our young influential lives. It is hard to face some of the pain we felt then. So we shove it down deep and try to forget.
We are often successful in forgetting. But that doesn’t mean that child is gone. That does not mean the pain is any less. Its just been numbed by the busyness and distractions of our adult life. It is up to us to remember if we want to move forward into true happiness.
“When we become aware that we’ve forgotten the wounded child in ourselves, we feel great compassion for that child and we begin to generate the energy of mindfulness. The practices of mindful walking, mindful sitting, and mindful breathing are our foundation. With our mindful breath and mindful steps, we can produce the energy of mindfulness and return to the awakened wisdom lying in each cell of our body. That energy will embrace us and heal us, and will heal the wounded child in us.” -Thich Nhat Hanh
My goal with LilaDance! is also very personal. It is an effort to deal with my own baggage and not pass it along to my own children. I am a work in progress. I have much to heal from, much to learn. But I choose to remember so I can find peace within myself, reconnect with my Inner Child and be at peace with those I love.
Finding joy and happiness…